Your first time is NOT supposed to hurt
You are NOT supposed to bleed
If you bleed, that is NOT your hymen being ‘popped’, it is a tear due to lack of sexual arousal and natural lubrication.
This is all a MYTH perpetrated by men so they don’t have to make sure you are comfortable and sufficiently aroused enough before you have sex with them. It is an excuse to disregard and hurt you.
I just really want women to know this.
lol tmi but I got my period the night I lost my virginity that was fun
It’s probably because I’m still feeling sick from that Panda Express and that side of asshole.
It was probably the most enraging thing I’ve ever heard someone say in a single moment. I can’t help but cringe every time I’m reminded of it, which is happening often because I also keep thinking about how much fun I had at Great Adventure today after that happened. I wish we hadn’t had to split up with some people, but I guess it was necessary since I probably would have ended up punching that guy and getting in actual legal trouble by the end of the day.
"Can’t argue with stupid."
I WISH I had said something. I wanted to say something, but nothing but rage came to mind, and I doubt he knows or cares if I heard it. I doubt he cares that we arrived where we wanted to within seconds of him uttering such garbage, and I doubt he felt any guilt for saying it. But I feel guilty because I didn’t stand up for my friends and boyfriend who were pointing the right direction. I didn’t turn around and say any of the stupid comebacks that could have come to my mind upon a moment’s consideration: “Apparently you can’t, stupid,” or, “Good thing I only keep fucking intellectuals as friends,” or actually calling him out and asking, “Exactly who do you think you’re calling ‘stupid’?” He thinks he’s smarter and better than everyone else [I mean, I’m guessing. We knew him for five fucking minutes before he went insulting us/them behind our backs], and I hate people like that so much I could take it on the road and campaign against ignorant assholes like him as if it’s my life’s sole purpose.
WELL, this ranting made me feel a lot better. I’m just glad I was able to have a good time anyway and no one got hurt. I hope one day this guy gets the crippling, emasculating kick to the balls he deserves. :]